Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Who pays for a Wedding ?



This may be a bit of a touchy subject. Traditionally, the father of the bride pays for the wedding except the bride's bouquet and wedding rings, but times are changing. Last year, we saw a royal wedding with Kate and Will, the personal node in the Abbey Church of Westminster Queen. The Middleton not pay for the entire wedding, they could simply not necessary with the splendor when the married secondly to the throne of England.




What we common folk, but how can we face a situation where we are. Lack the range reigning monarch in the cost of chips let’s face it, weddings are expensive, and it is a very important day for a couple, young or old.

Now there are some, dare I say, "Tactics" that can be put in? It is all about managing expectations. If you have more than one child, then it should probably be noted at the outset that everyone is treated equally and fairly. What you get, you get one too. I do not think you need to know every last cent, the index of consumer prices for all years and a check for the exact same, so make sure it is not much more or less expensive than others.



The next thing is to set expectations early, spend their entire childhood not to tell them to pay for their wedding if you are not able to deliver. If they always ask, then just say that you will help. Today it is very common for a couple to run their own households to plan their own wedding to his own expectations. Offer to cover some aspects of the ceremony, as the dinner or the photographer.



It is not uncommon for the groom's parents will not wear a wedding these days. In my case, they discovered photography and drinks while my parents paid for the food and we as a couple for decorations and all paid what the actual ceremony for him - it was a backyard wedding , so updating the garden should benefit in the longer term as well.